As we are asking people to pay for their own lunch we do not expect gifts as well. However, a few of you have indicated we'd be getting gifts regardless. We really don't need the standard wedding gifts (linen, wine glasses etc) so we've put together a few wishing well type options instead with a few other random things we can't justify buying ourselves.
Just to reiterate we do not expect gifts. We're more than happy to share the day with you and enjoying a nice lunch together.